Stop Being Weak

We are all weak, sometimes. However, we need to stop being weak. Weakness can cause us many problems. Other people can see the weaken us, but we can’t.

As weaklings, we limited and restricted ourselves to many possibilities because we thought we couldn’t do them. This situation also inappropriately restricted our self-confidence and self-respect. Gradually, we lost without any fight.

Stop being weak, as we only have one life. We are responsible for every bit of our life. We don’t live for others to see. We live for ourselves. We are our own testifiers.

Be my own ‘Owner’

My recent readings brought me to a new term -- ‘owner’. I am the owner of my life. Better still, I am the only owner of my own emotion and feelings.

Being an owner means I actually get to be in control of how I act and react, feel and think.

I am responsible over what I said to others. I would not hide when there is a problem.

Now, I heard, observed and experienced events that I once thought would crush me. I’m still standing and enjoying every moment of it! As the owner of my own life, I have every right to do something in each situation, good or bad.

Release Your Resentments

Don't ever allow your resentments tear you apart. Harbouring painful pasts is not going to be good to our heart, body and mind. Piling the resentments against others make us slaves to them. The pain in our hearts is not going to be erased by taking revenge. Plotting revenge is also eating us up, inside out.

The best is, to release all these resentments by refusing to relive what has been tearing us apart. Leave all the pain to the Higher Self.

By doing so, we have released our life from the grip of resentments. We are ready to face the future.

Do Not Judge

We all hear this every day: Do not judge a book by its cover.

These days, we may not judge a book by its cover but we judge our fellow colleagues, friends, neighbours and even family members by their living status.

We think ourselves more superior than those who live in small houses, drive small cars and shop at economy malls. With what do we measure? How we judge others will eventually be the measure that is used against us.

It is also quite tiring trying to live above others. To do that, we have to be conscious with what we do, say and think. We have lost the freedom to be 'us', we have suddenly become 'examples'. Afterall, to be judges, we have to be faultless in and out.

Step down as judge and start to yourself ....... truly yourself and start living.