Stop Complaining, Do Something!

Have you been complaining lately? Well, complaining isn’t going to solve your problems.

Maybe, it is time for you to listen to your own grievances too. If you listen carefully, you will find that your complaints are all about other people. If you listen again, you will find that you have been complaining repeatedly about the same thing. Time flies, yet, nothing changes.

Face it. Many times, you are the only one who can solve your own problems. So, you have to take action! The first step is very important and it should come from you!

Check your complaints:

• What are you complaining about?
• Have you been complaining repeated about the same thing?
• Do you know who you have been complaining to?
• Can the person(s) really help you?
• Have you taken any positive move to solve your complaints?
• Why have you not made the move yet?

Do something now! You are accountable for your own life and happiness!

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Winning is not the Answer

When there is a race going on, there will be losers. Prizes are given to the top three winners. However, even the second and third winners are not happy with their positions.

Everyone wants to be the first. If you are an athlete, you will be told that winning is everything. Instant fame and rich offers are waiting for you.

To a real winner, the route is full of obstacles. There are many ‘shorter cuts’ to success. There are also various tempting ‘opportunities’ along the way. If the winner has the prize in his mind all the time, he will reach the finishing in a good time and proudly take away the prize.

However, life is not just about winning. There are other people around us who care for us and whom we like to return the same affection. There are also people who had helped us in the past that we would like to return the kindness. There are also many things we would like to do now, not after we reached the finishing line.

Remember that, winning is not everything. Your fame is just a minute-long history. There will be winners after you. Nobody remembers you except those who love you.

Take some time out now and pay more attention to what you need to do. Spend more time with your loved ones. You have won more than anything else by doing so!

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Be Aware of Your Thoughts

Someone said, we have a new thought every minute of the day. Yes, if we are awake for 18 hours a day, that will make a total of 18 hours X 60 minutes = 10,800 thoughts. That is only for one day!

Yet, what will these thoughts bring to us? Are you aware of your own thoughts? Have you created the environment you want through your thoughts?

Your thoughts unfortunately, dictate your emotional state of mind. Your thoughts also decide the path you will follow.

When your thoughts are negatives, you will not feel happy at all. This will be reflected in your actions, reactions as well as the follow-up thoughts. You will also hurt people around you.

All motivators promote positive thinking. Positive thoughts promote positive actions and create healthy environment for you and people around you.

However, these are just thought. You can choose to pursue them or just leave them alone! You have the choice.

But, always be aware of your thoughts … and think positively all the time!

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Identify and Conquer Your Stumbling Blocks

Stumbling blocks are a lot easier to be conquered if you can identify them beforehand. No matter how big that stumbling block can be, get pass it as soon as possible. Do not spend your time complaining and cursing as that would not help at all.

How do you know you are blocked?

When you cannot see yourself reaping any result from the hard work you thought you have put in. Take a step back. Trace where you have go wrong. No, do not blame anyone, not even yourself. Things will not be better even if there is a scapegoat.

Most of the time, you yourself is the stumbling block. You have too many ideals in life. You put very high expectations on every thing you do, and in everyone who works with you. For you, a failure is the end of everything.

See the point? Get over it. Should you fail to find out what is blocking you, stop looking. Time is too precious to be wasted for that. Start again. You are conquering your own weakness by doing so!


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Confront Your Setbacks

Setbacks are not permanent. However, you need to recover from the shocking defeat fast. There is no need to hide away for a long time. When you feel down, you will not try to do anything. That is sad.

People will only applause when they see you have achieved something. Nobody cares the setbacks you have had before the success. So, nobody cares to ask.

It is always good to confront your setbacks. By then you will know where you have gone wrong. Then, start again, fresh!

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Be In Control

Do you know that your surroundings have no control over you? Things do not control you. Other people do not control you. You are one and the only who can control yourself.

What can you control?
- Your emotions
- Your attitudes
- Your inner dialogues.
- Your thoughts
- Your food intake
- Your desires
You cannot control others, so it is better to control yourself. Do not allow other people to control you too because you will lose your independence by doing so.

If you do not start doing something to control yourself, someone is going to do so soon!

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Impossible is Just a Word

When someone told you it is impossible to accomplish something, remember that ‘impossible’ is just a word. It does not reflect your inability. Do not allow that one word to stop you from your visions and missions.

I found this to share:

The man who misses all the fun

is he who says’ “It can’t be done.”

In solemn pride he stands aloof

and greets each venture with reproof.

Had he the power, he’d efface

the history of human race.

We would have no radio, no motorcar,

No street lit by electric stars,

No telegraph or telephone.

We’d linger in the age of stone.

the world would sleep if things were run

by men who say. “It can’t be done!”

Anonymous

The next time you hear someone says the word ‘impossible’ to you, remind yourself; “I’m possible”! Because when you believe in your abilities, everything can be done!

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Find the Solutions for Your Problems

You have problems. So does everyone else. We all face with problems every single day in our lives. The solution here is not to run away and hide.

If your problems seem to big and overwhelming, get some help. It is not easy to solve all the problems at once. So, do so one by one; a step at a time. Break down your problems. Some of them are just small ones which only need a little of your attention. Solve these problems first.

Some problems can wait. Find the solutions before they become your nightmares. When a problem stays unsolved too long, it will not disappear. Instead, it will be haunting you and your mind. You will be in constant fear. Your health and life may be under tremendous pressure.

Confront your problems as soon as possible. Solutions or ideas do not grow on trees. Do not wait until next month to do so!

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Employ Positive Self Talk Consistently

Self talking is way to rearrange your thoughts. Never be ashamed that you need to talk to yourself.

Successful personalities all over the world use positive self-talk to help them to move on. They encourage themselves, give themselves surprises and presents as forms of positive self support. When they face problems, they do not falter easily. Their positive self-talk give them much confidence and prod them to move forward bravely.

Consistent positive self talk can help you, even when others leave you alone to struggle in what you believe in. Tell yourself consistently that you are able to solve a problem. Tell yourself that you are able to do what others could.

Believe in your abilities positively. Believe what you want others to believe about you. Positive self-talking will change your perception of yourself.

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Stop Pretending You Don't Have A Problem

Everyone has problems. Problems never stop knocking on our doors, unlike opportunities. Yet, we all like to pretend that we do not have any problems. We just prefer the carefree life. Are you one of ‘us’?

Well, pretending that problem does not exist is not going to chase the problem away. Once there is a problem, you need to face it. Nobody can teach you how to solve a problem. Every problem has its own level of difficulty. You need to be resourceful to solve it.

All right, get some help if you want. But, you need to solve it before moving on. Procrastination is not going to solve the problem. Do not wait till the problem becomes a large part of your life as by then you will lose all your strength and purpose for life itself.

Solve your problems as soon as possible!

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