To Change or Not To Change?

 What's keeping you from venturing into the new world? Habits or fear? Surely it must not be habits. Habits can be re-learned. It is always fear that keeps us from reaching out ... 


Nobody but you have  the power to change your thoughts, emotions and actions. You know very well that everything in your own life is your own choice and choosing. 

However, in truth, we still can't deny the influence of others in our lives. We need to be very clear what are the credentials of the influencing force and who is the force. 


We can't improve ourselves if we choose to remain the same all the time. If we are not willing to change for the better, then, we lost control of the better things in our lives.

So, Another Failure – Get Better or Bitter?

Many people have forgotten that failures occurred because they have not prepared themselves extensively for the tasks. Whether it is business, family or personal, every matter needs planning. Maybe the masters were right after all, 'If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.'

We just do not fail accidentally. There must be certain reasons behind the failures.

Moaning for a past failure seems to be an endless game we like to play with ourselves. We ought to feel bitter because we fail, yet to allow the bitterness to get into our lives is totally another story. When will we get the chance to move on if the past keeps on catching up with the present?

There are many ways to make ourselves feel better. One of them is to walk out of the bitterness. Analyze the reasons why you failed, if you must. Then forget all about it. The sun is still going to rise again tomorrow. There is no reason to feel bitter.

Life is hard enough without you brooding about your failures. People are failing every minute of the day. Yet, they pick up where they failed and start over again. It does not matter if you walk three steps forward but move two steps backwards; because you are still a step forward! Bravo!

Learn your lessons and know where you are heading!

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Know What You Expect From Life

All of us expect something from life. We expect good health, prosperity, happiness, wealth and other fulfillment in life. Yet, most of the time, we are not so confident that we will receive them.

What have you put into your life that you expect to receive from it?
You cannot expect success just because someone told you a formula. You need to put the formula to use. You need to revise and improvise the formula until it truly became yours. You need to put in lots of efforts and hard-work. Then, you can sit back and expect success!

Although it is true when people say, ‘What you see is what you get’; you can still defy the saying. You can become better than the person you are now. You deserve better than you think.

If you anticipate other people to respect you; then, start doing something that will make them have a high opinion of you. It is imperative that only YOU alone know what you really expect from life.

You are the input and outcome of your own life!


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Keep Your Chin Up

Keeping your chin up helps you to look straight forward. You can make eye contacts easily and this helps to build better rapport between you and others.

While keeping your chin up, you are able to see the light better. Then, you are much aware of yourself and others.

Consciousness is around when you dare to keep your chin up!