Stop looking at what might have been, should have been, or could have been. Doing that will cost you your precious time.
If a broken heart occurred, let it be. If a failure happened, let it be. Hanging onto thoughts like ‘what might have been, should have been, or could have been’ are like trying to mend the walls of
Look around you, there are still many things going on for you. The world is still a beautiful place to live in.
Stop grumbling, and move forward!
This is a very common word – TRY.
“I’ll try doing that later.”
“I’ll try to wash this.”
“I’ll try to ……”
These are some very common sentences we hear utter by people around us, including ourselves, consciously or unconsciously.
This ‘try’ word always comes with words like ‘later’, ‘tomorrow’, ‘next time’ or words that denote afterward, not now. This then follows by procrastination.
Whatever goals we have set for ourselves are not achieved because our excuses are summarized into a single word …. ‘try’- we are just ‘trying’. We would not be disappointed even if we did not do anything at all. Everything is so simple when we use the word ‘try’!
If you are going to say, “I’ll try to stop using ‘try’.” You will end up trying many times and there will be no stop at all. Just say, “I’ll stop using that word.” Period. That is one less word to say!
We are victims of our own doings and thoughts. We are living in fear as victims.
Victims are always afraid of rejections, as if being rejected means they are worthless. Some of the victims even take it so personally that they lost their lives’ direction.
To avoid rejection, a victim chooses not to ask. Even if he has good intention to do something, he does not ask favours from others. A victim always has a superstitious fear of rejections.
Today, we are going to step out. We are going to make requests and ask favours from people around us. We must accept the fact that people may not be able to fulfill our requests. There are people who will say ‘no’ to us. However, these are not rejections.
Sometimes, our requests are just too ‘impossible’ for them!
