Stop Keep Wishing You’re Someone Else

Have you wished that you are ………? It is not something to be ashamed of. Every one of us has been wishing we are someone else, once a while.

It is not so healthy to your mind and soul to think that you are someone else everyday. When are you going to be yourself?

If you live your life as someone else, you would never have the chance to do what you want to do! You have to live up to the expectation of other people.

See what you have wasted if you keep wishing you are someone else every day:

- Time (wasting time to dream about things you do not have)

- Goals (have to adopt someone else’s goals)

- Effort (waste effort to realize other people’s goals)

- Money (waste money to keep up a lifestyle you cannot afford)

Finally, when you finally wake up to your own senses, ……. You’re aged! Your excuse for not able to achieve your own dreams is …… “I’m too old for that!”

So, live for your own true self, now!

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Dare To Be Different

When I was growing up, the slogan ‘Dare To Be Different’ was very popular. Back then, my teenage friends liked to hang out together and they were often seen wearing T-shirts with the same slogan splashed boldly on the front and back! I was the only one who seldom wanted to hang out with them ……. All because I was different!

These days, when you are considered as different, you are treated as one different person altogether. People will brand you names. Parents will forbid their children to go near you. Sometimes, even your own family members will think that you are weird! However, the truth is, there is nothing to lose to be different!

To ponder: Why people choose to be different from the crowd?

The answer is, of course

- They make choices and possibilities to expand every day.

- They have the courage to face the fears and go beyond the fears that bound them.

- They look forward with enthusiasm to the day ahead.

- They have the strength to overcome all challenges.

- They acknowledge their own creativity and power of imagination.

- They took responsibility for their thoughts and actions.

- They trust their own ability to create abundance.

- They recognize their true self-worth.

You can also choose to be different. Nobody can stop you. Life cannot stop you too. Instead, your life is waiting for you to be different from other people's!

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Am I a Failure?

Yes you are, because your self-concept says so. Be serious! Your self-concept is very important.

When you start being suspicious of your abilities, your self-concept is not strong. You expect failures!

In every task you are assigned, remember that people expect you to fail. You may not think that way, but it is true. Behind that sweet smile, behind that 'I can count on you' look, there is the 'you are a failure' thought.

Well, it is up to you to form your own self concept. You set your own ceilings. When you think you are a failure, you will fail. No matter how much effort you have put in the task.

The task here is, can you readjust your self image again? You still have many choices because life is about options. Being alive is an option. Expecting failure is another option. Since you can choose to fail, you can easily choose to succeed too.

When you have failed (because you have expected it, remember), do not go around and repeat this phrase "Who? Me? A Failure?" Yes, you are because you wanted and begged for it.

Your self concept is low and you expect only failures. Being humble is good. But, being too humble is a waste of your living effort!

So, recompose your self concept again..... No ceiling is too high but any ceiling can be too low!


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Could Have, Might Have, Should Have

'Don't fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of life contains three descriptions; could have, might have and should have.' - Louis Boone

Isn't that just any normal man would describe himself?
I could have .....
I might have .....
I should have ......

However, when one starts to live in these unrealized thoughts, one will never move forward. Yes, indeed failures make us nobody. Living in failure only reminds us that we could have, might have and should ..... but never really have had!

Start living in reality. Do things you want to do. Many people fail everyday. There are many still who made it. You will too, if you start doing something positive instead of lamenting what you 'could have, might have and should have' IF you are successful!



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Think Small, and You’ll Never Be BIG!

Someone said that at a seminar sometime ago. Everybody laughed when they heard the statement.

Reflecting on our dreams, the statement sums it all. When we think of achieving only small dreams, we will never make it big! We may be successful, but only small successes which nobody notices at all!

Check your goals again. Are they simple goals?

If so, maybe you will need to reset some of your small goals to make them seem 'impossible'. By doing so, you will need to dig deep into your resources to get things done!

Think big if you want to attain the 'impossible'. All things ‘impossible’ are achieved when people started to think creatively.

Creative thinking means going for the bigger dreams where ‘impossible’ is a word not imprinted in our dictionaries!


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Know What You Expect From Life

All of us expect something from life. We expect good health, prosperity, happiness, wealth and other fulfillment in life. Yet, most of the time, we are not so confident that we will receive them.

What have you put into your life that you expect to receive from it?
You cannot expect success just because someone told you a formula. You need to put the formula to use. You need to revise and improvise the formula until it truly became yours. You need to put in lots of efforts and hard-work. Then, you can sit back and expect success!

Although it is true when people say, ‘What you see is what you get’; you can still defy the saying. You can become better than the person you are now. You deserve better than you think.

If you anticipate other people to respect you; then, start doing something that will make them have a high opinion of you. It is imperative that only YOU alone know what you really expect from life.

You are the input and outcome of your own life!


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Stop Complaining, Do Something!

Have you been complaining lately? Well, complaining isn’t going to solve your problems.

Maybe, it is time for you to listen to your own grievances too. If you listen carefully, you will find that your complaints are all about other people. If you listen again, you will find that you have been complaining repeatedly about the same thing. Time flies, yet, nothing changes.

Face it. Many times, you are the only one who can solve your own problems. So, you have to take action! The first step is very important and it should come from you!

Check your complaints:

• What are you complaining about?
• Have you been complaining repeated about the same thing?
• Do you know who you have been complaining to?
• Can the person(s) really help you?
• Have you taken any positive move to solve your complaints?
• Why have you not made the move yet?

Do something now! You are accountable for your own life and happiness!

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Winning is not the Answer

When there is a race going on, there will be losers. Prizes are given to the top three winners. However, even the second and third winners are not happy with their positions.

Everyone wants to be the first. If you are an athlete, you will be told that winning is everything. Instant fame and rich offers are waiting for you.

To a real winner, the route is full of obstacles. There are many ‘shorter cuts’ to success. There are also various tempting ‘opportunities’ along the way. If the winner has the prize in his mind all the time, he will reach the finishing in a good time and proudly take away the prize.

However, life is not just about winning. There are other people around us who care for us and whom we like to return the same affection. There are also people who had helped us in the past that we would like to return the kindness. There are also many things we would like to do now, not after we reached the finishing line.

Remember that, winning is not everything. Your fame is just a minute-long history. There will be winners after you. Nobody remembers you except those who love you.

Take some time out now and pay more attention to what you need to do. Spend more time with your loved ones. You have won more than anything else by doing so!

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Be Aware of Your Thoughts

Someone said, we have a new thought every minute of the day. Yes, if we are awake for 18 hours a day, that will make a total of 18 hours X 60 minutes = 10,800 thoughts. That is only for one day!

Yet, what will these thoughts bring to us? Are you aware of your own thoughts? Have you created the environment you want through your thoughts?

Your thoughts unfortunately, dictate your emotional state of mind. Your thoughts also decide the path you will follow.

When your thoughts are negatives, you will not feel happy at all. This will be reflected in your actions, reactions as well as the follow-up thoughts. You will also hurt people around you.

All motivators promote positive thinking. Positive thoughts promote positive actions and create healthy environment for you and people around you.

However, these are just thought. You can choose to pursue them or just leave them alone! You have the choice.

But, always be aware of your thoughts … and think positively all the time!

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Identify and Conquer Your Stumbling Blocks

Stumbling blocks are a lot easier to be conquered if you can identify them beforehand. No matter how big that stumbling block can be, get pass it as soon as possible. Do not spend your time complaining and cursing as that would not help at all.

How do you know you are blocked?

When you cannot see yourself reaping any result from the hard work you thought you have put in. Take a step back. Trace where you have go wrong. No, do not blame anyone, not even yourself. Things will not be better even if there is a scapegoat.

Most of the time, you yourself is the stumbling block. You have too many ideals in life. You put very high expectations on every thing you do, and in everyone who works with you. For you, a failure is the end of everything.

See the point? Get over it. Should you fail to find out what is blocking you, stop looking. Time is too precious to be wasted for that. Start again. You are conquering your own weakness by doing so!


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